LOVE VS HATE

Can you actually hate the person u love? Well i find this topic real interesting. Let me first give u the defition of this two words from Encarta....

Love : very strong affection: an intense feeling of tender affection and compassion
passionate attraction and desire

Hate: to dislike somebody or something intensely

Well one actual fact that we can see from the definitions are that both requires intense feeling and sometimes well we just couldnt help feeling that way. I guess in a way sometimes we tend to hate the person we love perhaps because they really mean the world to us and every little actions done by them affects us so much that instead of love, we change it to hate to replace the lost feelings there....
I guess we just expect too much from our love ones that sometimes it changes to disappointment and then hate over time....And can we actually love the person we hate?
I was listening to the radio in the morning and came across sth interesting....
Well this happen in actual life...and these people were telling abt how the person they hate end up being the person they love...They used to hate their partners so much that they keep bickering and cant stand a minute near them but now they are actually happily married to these people they used to hate so much...Look at how fate (okay2 i noe im finally using this word) plays a part in bringing or breaking people apart...i guess thats just how life is....Love the person u hate or hate the person u love...Either way it shows how much that person means to u since it causes u to feel such intense feeling....

so peeps a word of advice....dun hate anyone or they will be the one ull end up with ...hahax